Today, I wanted to just chat with you guys a bit about a topic that I think we all have dealt with at one time or another. Comparison is one of those ugly aspects, that can come from blogging (and really, being online in general). I don’t think any of us mean for it to happen, but if we are not careful, we can fall victim very easily.
When we’re so plugged in to what every other person is doing and achieving, it can be really hard not to compare our own lives to theirs. It could be anything- maybe you think they have a cuter blog design that your’s, or perhaps they’ve got more followers or high statistics. Whatever it may be, there are a few things I think we all need to remind ourselves of whenever this happens:
I know from experience that comparing yourself and what you do to others in the same field can greatly affect your focus. Instead of using your time and energy to create amazing things, you watch what everyone else is doing and beat yourself up for not being where they’re at. It’s tough not to sometimes, and I’m guilty myself of comparing my blog to those of people who have been at this way longer than I have.It doesn’t mean what I’m doing is any less, or that I should feel like I’m not enough. When I notice that I’m doing this, I try to stop my train of though right where it is and remind myself of the points I listed above.
I think this goes for everyone…
Don’t tear yourself down by comparing to those around you. Instead, look at all you’ve accomplished, and set goals from there so you can keep moving forward and upwards.
Keep Smiling 🙂